!!!!!!!!!....Good/Bad n Happy/Unhappy....!!!!!!!!!!!

The day was quite interesting. Looked over the Rating for the performance of this year.  Oooo its ‘S’ again…With this got a hatric but of course it doesn’t mean I’m extraordinary..:P:P. Then went for the settlements, one to clear my Guaranteed Loan n the other to Look over the Investments for future. Then saw the movie “Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara”.

Before going for the movie itself…..today somehow my heart was saying mind to write something about God/Bad and Happy/Unhappy just because I realized few things that came across my way today.

A day can be good or bad based on the mood/mind set/things happening. It may be good or may not be. Someday we feel very happy where as the other day we feel sad. There might be some reason behind any of them but point to be noted is when the mind feels relaxed and happy then all days would be good. Just to make up our mind it’s always good to throw light on things which we like the most and not on the things which make you distracted. Past cannot be changed then why to give it more thinking. Leave it; enjoy the life by choosing the way you love to be….giving least importance to what others think. None in this world is happy forever. Everyone has their own set of problems and it’s up to one how they face them and how they prioritize them.

Somehow there was a coincidence of my thinking with that of the movie. Movie was good with the three frnd characters going for a bachelor party and finally realizing that Life is to enjoy each moment coming out of scarcity and doing the things that one like. Simple Message, Funny Jokes and Crazy Spain Tradition make me reminded of good olden days. One memorable experience was in our trip to Rishikesh with Rafting. I simply loved the time we spent there and did not want to come out of it. Waves, Boating, Long Jump from 22ft. Wahhh It was full of fun and njoyed it to max. I have been to Mount Opera, Jal Vihar. But Rishikesh Rafting was too good that I wanted to be there once again…:D. Along with that I could analyze few things.

Many times came across the discussions that Guyz point out Gals for some reasons and vice versa. I just feel that both are equally good and both are equally bad. There should be a mutual understanding and not that we just say the fault is with one. Guyz wanted to be independent, enjoying the life with crazy things where as galz are dependent wanting to spend most of the time with their family/better half.  Galz will be happy with little surprises and remembers n celebrates small small occasions where as Guyz don’t even remember such. There are many points which can be pointed over here but I just say ..Gals give some independence to Guyz, let them have some space so as to enjoy and do what they wanted to do …..and Guyz at the same time give some importance to Galz feelings, make them happy with the little surprises and being true to wat you say. There would be a proper reason for everything that one do.  Proper understanding would always lead to a healthier relationship. When one is wrong let the other accept it making the former realize their faults and know the importance of the latter.  One small tip to galz…don’t mind when you have given least importance, just be positive and wait to watch the things that lead to a good way for sure at a later stage..What I wanted to say is not with only a Married Relationship but with any relation may be with friends, family members,etc. Overcome your Ego and there you can find a True Relationship. Good/Bad n Happy/UnHappy is always in your hands...Let it take the right path.....:):):)