!!!!!!!!!....Good/Bad n Happy/Unhappy....!!!!!!!!!!!

The day was quite interesting. Looked over the Rating for the performance of this year.  Oooo its ‘S’ again…With this got a hatric but of course it doesn’t mean I’m extraordinary..:P:P. Then went for the settlements, one to clear my Guaranteed Loan n the other to Look over the Investments for future. Then saw the movie “Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara”.

Before going for the movie itself…..today somehow my heart was saying mind to write something about God/Bad and Happy/Unhappy just because I realized few things that came across my way today.

A day can be good or bad based on the mood/mind set/things happening. It may be good or may not be. Someday we feel very happy where as the other day we feel sad. There might be some reason behind any of them but point to be noted is when the mind feels relaxed and happy then all days would be good. Just to make up our mind it’s always good to throw light on things which we like the most and not on the things which make you distracted. Past cannot be changed then why to give it more thinking. Leave it; enjoy the life by choosing the way you love to be….giving least importance to what others think. None in this world is happy forever. Everyone has their own set of problems and it’s up to one how they face them and how they prioritize them.

Somehow there was a coincidence of my thinking with that of the movie. Movie was good with the three frnd characters going for a bachelor party and finally realizing that Life is to enjoy each moment coming out of scarcity and doing the things that one like. Simple Message, Funny Jokes and Crazy Spain Tradition make me reminded of good olden days. One memorable experience was in our trip to Rishikesh with Rafting. I simply loved the time we spent there and did not want to come out of it. Waves, Boating, Long Jump from 22ft. Wahhh It was full of fun and njoyed it to max. I have been to Mount Opera, Jal Vihar. But Rishikesh Rafting was too good that I wanted to be there once again…:D. Along with that I could analyze few things.

Many times came across the discussions that Guyz point out Gals for some reasons and vice versa. I just feel that both are equally good and both are equally bad. There should be a mutual understanding and not that we just say the fault is with one. Guyz wanted to be independent, enjoying the life with crazy things where as galz are dependent wanting to spend most of the time with their family/better half.  Galz will be happy with little surprises and remembers n celebrates small small occasions where as Guyz don’t even remember such. There are many points which can be pointed over here but I just say ..Gals give some independence to Guyz, let them have some space so as to enjoy and do what they wanted to do …..and Guyz at the same time give some importance to Galz feelings, make them happy with the little surprises and being true to wat you say. There would be a proper reason for everything that one do.  Proper understanding would always lead to a healthier relationship. When one is wrong let the other accept it making the former realize their faults and know the importance of the latter.  One small tip to galz…don’t mind when you have given least importance, just be positive and wait to watch the things that lead to a good way for sure at a later stage..What I wanted to say is not with only a Married Relationship but with any relation may be with friends, family members,etc. Overcome your Ego and there you can find a True Relationship. Good/Bad n Happy/UnHappy is always in your hands...Let it take the right path.....:):):)

Think Cool, Think Pleasant and Think Matured...!!!!!!!!!!!!

To Start with, I can state a telugu phrase “Avesam Alcochana Ku Chotu Ivvadu” meaning hurriedness/angerness will not allow a way for proper thinking. To point few

Attending/Answering in an interview:

Even if you go with a pleasant mind, when the questions start attacking you, at a particular point of time you feel things are going wrong n then tension starts implying thinking subjected to a black screen making no visibility of known things also. When first half go wrong, it’s obvious that the second part though is pretty much easy to overcome; people fail to do so I feel. If one is not under stress then they can handle the situation cool giving the breath to the second part at least

When a serious meeting goes on in which the boss says/demands to do things that are not satisfactory to you and which could not have been accepted by even him as a person but still asks the team to do only because of “Managerial Role”. All knew that it fetches nothing and that’s a huge loss to them but still no one points it correctly in the right direction and they search for ways to reach destination without taking the straight path, with a matured level of thinking and there are few with immaturity hits the correct route ending up with  a bad note @boss. Young blood is always like this, when it’s correct… why it can’t be put forward. But yes it’s a wrong step and one should not do that especially in profession life. Think Cool, Think Pleasant and Think Matured. Right things are not treated as right sometimes implying the necessity of change to make the mind think stable and tactful focusing on the lighter side n not on the heavier one which actually is not necessary.

Here I conclude saying konni sarlu avaesam panikiradu and at the same time alochana sariayina dari chupistundi. So my frndz I say Think Coolllllllllll, Think Pleasanttttttt and Think Maturedddddddddddd both @ Personal and Professional Life and you could surely have the fruit out of it..JJJ

Arru...One of my lovely Frnd...!!!!!!!!!!

Aravinda alias Arru, a sweet frnd of mine @ Satyam who is well known for her uniqueness. Her name itself falls into the category of flowers, which spreads "The Fragrance of the Presence" and "The Beauty of the Creation”. Her name absolutely describes her personality, the lingering fragrance of the lotus flower holds the perfect potential of bringing a tender smile on anybody's lips. It symbolizes the Clarity of heart as well as mind.

Thanks 2 God for the Creation of such Creature. A good stealer of hearts as a person..:P.  The qualities that I like in her...Helping nature which she never gives it up, Maturity levels in thinking that lead to right decision at right time, Beats of the kind heart that thinks of all though not her own ones, Smile that lasts all the way, Working Style which is Simple & Sweet, Enthusiasm that makes the participation in all events n fills energy, Passion 4 pets, movies n cooking, Enjoyment of each & every minute, Talks with info cum Gusa Gusa..Wat Not..!!!..Arru An All Rounder.

I simply luv her for the way she is. Its been more than one year that she left the company yet I could feel n recollect few moments that we had together. She is one of the loving friends I have. Ofcourse I would like to mark this too in my blog. So here I am..:):). There are few more in the list would try to pen down them too later…:D

My Birthday 2011

Birthdays come and go but the memories last long and 2011 was such one which gave me more happiness and memories that can be remembered for years. From Childhood we are used to celebrate birthday. We have grown up but still continue cutting cake n giving chocolates to make ones mouth sweet as we did in school. Wishing Frndz on their day, giving greeting cards/surprises such were still experienced by many of us. Even the same was with me too. The day started with a pleasant breeze, it was raining and I felt for sometime that even nature wants to celebrate my day and is happy for me showing it in the form of rain..:P..Then I had bath, went to temple to show my face to God at least on this day  & thank him for the life he has given and also to ask to give the strength so as to face the hurdles that come on my way with confidence. From there I went to sweet shop to get some for my neighbours/friends/team and then returned home. Mom was busy preparing special dishes for me with chicken which I like the most. Once she is almost done we had a cake cutting and got the blessings of mom. Earlier we use to have the cake cutting on the evening of birthday and it’s in the morning these days as I have to go to office in second shift. Then I gave the cake/sweets to my aunt n got her blessings too. Then had a delicious lunch n followed the path towards office.

From night wishes started from friends and with an energetic feel I entered the office. There all the team members started wishing me one by one on my way and I happily returned to desk. There I found a biggest surprise. My desk was completely decorated with flowers, greeting, ballons, wat not. It was awesome and I liked it to the core. Sat on my chair and opened my mails. Inbox is filled with plenty of good wishes from many. Thanked everyone and gave sweets to all. The day was going great and in the meantime there was a mail of cake cutting. Oh my goodness, creativity here too. I simply loved it. In between my frndz called me and there I found even more surprises one by one. They kept on giving  and I’m just watching, enjoying and with joy there were no words to express my happiness. They have presented me a watch, which I was thinking to buy from long time. It was simple cum stylish followed by a dress again which I liked n of course it has been chosen by me the previous day in a different context but finally that’s to me, which is then followed by purses along with hair pins which are very cute and I liked all of them very much.

In this way I was receiving many surprises one by one and people made me very special with the activities they have planned. After that we had the cake cutting which I enjoyed, with nice facials. Then had group photos and all of us enjoyed our snacks time. I have returned to the desk but was not in a mood to work, my mind was filled with happiness and the day was very special & memorable.

It got me reminded of the bistians birthdays- First year my Roomie b’day with the room completely decorated with flowers n blue hearts, Swathis’ first year b’day with Treasure Hunt, Shwaathi’s final year b’day with Pizza Cutting, Swathi’s third year b’day with Icecream Cutting, Maddy’s Last year b’day with presentations tat i had prepared, Cheri’s Photo Album n Flower Bouquet…Oooooooo..all those days r very memorable. Luved them n Luv u all lots my frndz….:D

My Special thanks to Uma, Siri, Satti, Srini n Subbu for making my day great and very special. I really did not have words to express my joy n happiness looking at the way the things are organized to make my day special. The efforts put forward by them have no boundaries as in my happiness that day. It was very memorable one that I could cherish for years n years. Thank you frndz…Luv u all…JJJ

Mistakes Mistakes Mistakes........!!!!!!!!

I usually believe I do fewer mistakes which may not be 100% true. I’m not sure how GOD has created me but there are times that some of my decisions take the right path while the others go wrong. Personally when a problem comes, I give it enough thinking that there can be a good solution and many times I’m correct in  taking a decision but again it would fetch benefit to the others when compared to the things that benefit more to me. My concentration is not about the people benefited. I just feel sometimes when I’m able to think good for others why I can’t to myself. There were few situations that causes root for the mistakes. To quote few simple examples:

Keeping a mail- In profession life, Many believe that I can do better than them in this job. They seek for suggestions and believes/involves me to a  good extent. They have a good impression on me don’t know why may be because of the Institute I came from and may be because of my earlier mails. When there are some occasion’s people ask me to draft a mail. I don’t understand what difference I make but just feel that my mail is simple, apt and easily understood. I actually don’t feel there is much change in terms of the exaggeration or hi5 languague. It’s the confidence they have and I cross verify again in order to keep up one’s confidence. But when it comes to me, sometimes I feel like not even cross verifying what is been written, will just circulate the mail. Less time is given for writing and sending because mind says enough why to re-verify it implying over confidence and ignorance. Along with this the other habit I have is looking at the sent mail again after it is been sent. There I could find the flaws and feels bad why did I make a mistake. This mistake might be small but is of lack of perfection which I don’t like myself. If I would have focused on my over confidence/ ignorance at a earlier stage, my mind would not have been disturbed which is Unnecessary at a later point of time

Planning Things- There are situations where we don’t get proper time to plan things properly but there are few situations where we have enough time to plan. Suppose if I feel to go to office early on some day. I’ll get up early but still I end up not reaching the office at the time I have planned already. Many times I end up giving not much variation between the times I reach office daily to that of the day I planned to go early. Again it is all because of ignorance. I’ll look at the time 10 times but reminds mind that I still have time to start and will pass the time doing some unnecessary things like Watching TV/@ FB/Roaming in and out/on phones at the early stage and finally end-up not making much difference compared to routine or failed to execute the planned activity.

In the same way there are many such instances like Mom asks me something and I keep on delaying the things, doing time pass at the beginning and rushing at the end, planned to go for an interview without the printout of resume and rush at the last minute, for good/bad at the same time power would not be there in the area n hav to seek frndz help in getting things done. Why all this, Why the hell I do mistakes, when I knew I can do things better.

Mistakes Mistakes Mistakes,,,,,,,I hate mistakes but still I do, when analyzed it is all because of my ignorance. So common baby get rid of your ignorance and mistakes will be no more…All d very best..:):):)